What is Confidence?

Do you feel superior to others? Were you stubborn and obstinate? It is insensitive to others? Is it selfish? Well, it may be useful to start with a dictionary definition type. Reference The Oxford Dictionary explains that trust is .. "Shut confidence, a sense of certainty, a sense of self-confidence, courage." As for the term "self-confidence", says the dictionary ... "Having confidence in his ability." I think we all have our own idea of ​​what trust is and how it feels with us, who may or may not agree with all the above. Why are some people more confident than others?  Ahhh ... that is the question 64 million is actually be relatively easy to answer. It comes down to how a person perceives the world and, in particular, how they are perceived. So if someone is described as a person of little faith, then it is more likely to keep that feeling untrustworthy. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Thoughts about themselves influence their actions. Their actions will provide information to their perceptions of themselves. A person who lacks confidence can not try to aim high in life, afraid to fail. In the absence of high goal, get poor results or reinserted into the medium and its belief in the confidence. It can become a vicious circle of poor performance leading to low confidence booster. How can a person obtain a low confidence?  Well, if you accept the fact that nobody is born with little confidence, then you must also accept that little confidence should be a learned response and behavior. What can be learned can be unlearned. Possible reasons for low confidence are:  1) Past achievements have been offended by someone of influence 2) A father had little confidence in him and adopted this way of being in 3) An error was made and consequences (job loss, relationships, money, house) makes them feel ill at themselves 4) A repetitive experience harassment at home, at school or at work 5) mental, physical or emotional bullying 6) treatment healthy psychological events (see always negative side of everything) 7) unrealistic goals that never reached 8) Living in the shadow of a father, a brother, a friend or colleague are always successful 9) Where are compared by a parent, a brother, a friend or colleague to another person 10) The experience of being a victim who has been accepted permanently. How do people with high self-esteem to keep? They do a lot of things, consciously or unconsciously to maintain confidence in a healthy state. It is important to realize that although people may appear confident always that way, they can also suffer doubt also his confidence. A temporary lack of confidence can occur when certain events are not going well for them. These include: - 1) The issue of personal relationship (separation, divorce, etc.) 2) the loss of a loved one through death 3) a decrease in the work 4) Do not expect to get that promotion at work 5) homeless 6) A Helping Hand (near fatality) 7) A disease For many people, after the situation has been tried and history, they will regain their confidence. Go through the experience of the event is disruptive can lead to stronger and more resilient confidence, as they were able to manage it. There is an expression that highlights the ... "What kills us has the potential to make us stronger"  Is it possible that a person with little confidence to win the Super confidence?  Of course, however, a better goal would be healthy confidence. You see that overconfidence can be as bad as reliable. I'm sure we've all met that person who says much, but when it comes to delivery, they are generally not able to meet its hype. Indeed, overconfidence external person may be someone who has little confidence. Just trying to hide the lack of confidence of a sample of overconfidence. You can recognize as the person who was the strongest of its peer group. They may have been the tyrant who said they could not do anything and yet there is little evidence to support this. A trustworthy person who really does not need to prove anything to anyone, especially not themselves. They do their best. Your goal is to stretch and are able to accept responsibility for success and failure. In fact, the absence of a trustworthy person is commentary. It gives more information to let them make a better decision Another aspect to a healthy person with confidence is that they are themselves. They do not pretend to be something they are not. No need to brag or boast or talk to your life. They are what you see and can not admit that I'm wrong.